It is a remarkable drug and I hope that it is strong enough to attack the cancer cells lingering in my body hiding out. You can see in the images that it is a targeted treatment and that means that it is not going to kill every rapidly developing cell in my body like traditional chemotherapy does. My hair should not fall out which is great for my kids. The healthier I look the less scary it is for them and that is one small thing to be grateful for. I will have a total of 14 treatments given every three weeks until complete putting me at being done around the beginning of summer next year.
I have tried hard to never sugar coat anything on this blog so here is the truth; this treatment is going to suck. It is strong, stronger than herceptin. Don’t be mislead that because it is targeted it is not chemo, this is chemo just administered more precisely. I will need to have blood work done every three weeks to monitor platelets plus red and white blood counts. I will need to have my liver checked every three weeks and eliminate any Tylenol and alcohol to protect it. The echocardiograms I have been doing will continue . every three months. With the radiation there is more concern with skin issues and I will have to have my lungs monitored for inflammation. My hand was shaking when I signed the release form accepting the fate on my body from the treatment.
It is scary….and I am scared. More than any other emotion I feel fear. Fear that it won’t be enough. Fear that I will go through this all again and the cancer inside me will find a way to grow again. Fear that the medicine will hurt something else inside me. Fear that I have almost no control of my life and my future. I am scared to start the treatment and also scared we are waiting to long to start it. I really wish I could go for a run or a swim and clear my head but neither are an option at this point which frustrates the hell out of me.
Scott had planned a big celebratory vacation for us after cancer. We were suppose to leave for Kauai today. But we had to cancel it, just like we canceled Disney World last year. I think that this is the hardest part for me, more than the surgeries, treatments, and side effects is the life my children and husband are having to live because of all this. They were so excited (just like Disney World) to go to Kauai. My kids have been doing extra chores and saving money for the trip. They bought new swimsuits and even did research on excursions they wanted to do (Scott booked them but thankfully we got our money back). There faces when we told them that another vacation was going to have to be put on hold, well it bruises my heart. We are going to try to do some fun things around here to make up for it, but it isn’t the same.
I know that what is coming is going to be challenging and I have always loved a good challenge. If I might ask, please be sensitive with my kids, especially Emery. She is the most scared out of my three and often asks me if I am going to die and if she will ever see me again. I beg you not to ask them questions but to come to Scott, myself, my parents or my siblings. If my kids wants to talk about this let them bring it up. They are exceptional children and have amazing friends, some that they want to talk to about this, but often they just want to be kids. I desperately need them to be kids, to be silly and sassy, to laugh and run and just live. It is the best medicine for me.